Have you tried to find a cookie jar lately? It isn’t easy! For all practical purposes, they don’t exist in walk-in stores.
About a month ago, my ten-year old grandson and I were horsing around in their kitchen. Between us, we managed to break the cookie jar lid.
As we swept up the shards we agreed we would need to go out together and find a replacement. This wasn’t going to be an on-line fix, but a one-on-one, time together in the car, and searching-the-shelves experience.
The Saturday before Mother’s Day was our outing. Eventually after walking through several stores, we found a canister which could become a cookie jar; on top of that, the colors worked surprisingly well for the kitchen. We had a good time together and, best of all, his mom was delighted with the replacement.
This was a fairly typical expression of love and caring on Mother’s Day.
But what if you don’t have a mom? Or if you don’t have children? The good news is that mothering and fathering can take many forms.
There are a multitude of opportunities to give of ourselves, if we are open to them. Nearly every school needs volunteer tutors. Nearly every community can use volunteers for various services and organizations. There are different ways to express nurturing, guidance, and caring outside the traditional family structure.
About a month ago, my ten-year old grandson and I were horsing around in their kitchen. Between us, we managed to break the cookie jar lid.
As we swept up the shards we agreed we would need to go out together and find a replacement. This wasn’t going to be an on-line fix, but a one-on-one, time together in the car, and searching-the-shelves experience.
The Saturday before Mother’s Day was our outing. Eventually after walking through several stores, we found a canister which could become a cookie jar; on top of that, the colors worked surprisingly well for the kitchen. We had a good time together and, best of all, his mom was delighted with the replacement.
This was a fairly typical expression of love and caring on Mother’s Day.
But what if you don’t have a mom? Or if you don’t have children? The good news is that mothering and fathering can take many forms.
There are a multitude of opportunities to give of ourselves, if we are open to them. Nearly every school needs volunteer tutors. Nearly every community can use volunteers for various services and organizations. There are different ways to express nurturing, guidance, and caring outside the traditional family structure.
If physical contact with children isn't an option, most faith traditions offer meaningful ways to pray for the world's children. Children in need aren't picky about your faith; but they are grateful for whatever blessings your prayers may bring.
“Father-Mother is the name for Deity, which indicates His tender relationship to His spiritual creation.” (Mary Baker Eddy)
Looking for, and stepping into, opportunities to express fathering and mothering blesses those who need what we have to give, and bolsters our own sense of worth.
This can be done without breaking cookie jars.
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